In Search of Joe Average Gamer
Wednesday, July 2nd, 2008A word of warning to the wary: gaming culture can be a bit rough. Viewing the material in some of these links can cause sleepless nights, strained sensibilities, and a general feeling of anger and/or disgust to those with an aversion to strong language. Consider yourself warned.
On that note:
My attention was brought recently to an article on the Boston Globe’s Web site about gaming addiction. In the article, Dr. Jerald Block reveals that many people he counsels through this “disorder” are somehow more ashamed of spending too much time playing video games than those who come to him for counseling for a pornography addiction. Despite the overwhelming demographic data pointing to the fact that a seriously large portion of our population spends hours each week gaming, it’s somehow more socially acceptable to spend more time looking at pornography, according to the article. Dr. Block is trying to get excessive gaming, Internet usage, and text messaging included in the DSM-V as a psychological disorder. Reading this interview got me thinking about myself and other gamers I know. We’re all so different. Do we have a psychological disorder?
The other day as I was checking out purepwnage.com, between bursts of uncontrolled laughter at the stereotypical antics of Jeremy, the main character, I began to wonder again how much truth was actually in the stereotype his character lampooned. Who is your typical gamer in 2008? Was this elusive creature anything like the “pro gamer” character portrayed by Jarett Cale? Did they relish “pwning n00bs” with their “leet micro” so much that it became a lifestyle?
I decided to do a little digging on my own. The first article I found was from eMarketer, and it revealed that several studies from various sources revealed the average gamer was somewhere between the ages of 18-49, and was slightly more likely to be male (62% male vs. 38% female). The study did note the more ‘hardcore’ the gamer was, the more likely the gamer was to be male. A statistic I found surprising (though I have no idea why) was that 1 out of every 4 gamers was above the age of 50. Most adults today have lived with this technology for years, as 69% of American “heads of household” play games, the average gamer being 33 years old and having gamed for 12 years (here).
According to various sources online, gamers make better surgeons, are better prepared to manage multinational corporations, are more likely to be qualified for IT positions, and make all-around better employees. Conversely, other online sources suggest that gaming turns children into hardened killers, slows brain development, make us more aggressive, and is probably addictive (check this article for some straight dope on some of these claims). The gamer is either loved or maligned, depending upon who you ask. Being an avid gamer myself, I would tend to agree with those who say the geek shall inherit the earth (I just had to throw that one in there).
So once again, who is your average gamer? It would appear that there isn’t really any such animal anymore. On the “fringe” you’ll find gamers like the pro “Frag Dolls” and the gamers listed in Game Lemons’ 2007 article “Top Ten Hottest Girl Gamers (who are actually gamers).” Since female gamers are actually more prevalent than most people believe, I predict more “female friendly” hardcore game titles are on the horizon (yes, GeekSugar, it will soon happen I’m sure). For all of you hardcore ladies looking for a new MMO, I highly recommend my fave, Eve-Online (yeah, I know I plug them a lot, but I’m obsessed!). It’s gender neutral, highly engaging, and VERY competitive. I introduced my gamer girlfriend to the game, and she is absolutely “addicted.”
Elsewhere on the “fringe,” you’ll find groups of gamers that cater to the gay and lesbian communities. One such site, gaymer.org, provides a place for gay and gay-friendly gamers to get together and get their game on. Gaming seems to be rather prevalent in the gay community, as a survey conducted by Jason Rockwood at www.gaymersurvey.org noted almost as many homosexual gamers as heterosexual, and this particular survey was blog-pimped by IGN.com. Like the “girl gamer,” the “gaymer” isn’t as uncommon as many would tend to believe.
In my search for “Joe Average Gamer,” I did run across a Web site that broke almost every gamer stereotype I’ve ever seen, and for this, I love it. Enter Old Grandma Hardcore, the online matriarch of competitive gaming. As noted in the blog description (the blog is written by her grandson Tim), she is …”the video-game playing queen of her age-bracket and weight class. She will beat any PS2, XBox, GameCube, etc., console game put in front of her, just like she always has. These are her stories. She is absolutely real. She lives in Cleveland.” This little lady recently screamed through Call of Duty 4 single player on VETERAN’S MODE, albeit probably with a profuse amount of cussing. Grandma, you break the mold, and you’ve won a new fan… errr… reader!
I would say that there’s nothing to be ashamed of. If you like to game, rest assured that you’re among a large group of very diverse people. Gamers are everywhere, and as immersive and advanced as gaming technology is becoming, there are only going to be more of us as time goes on, from every walk of life. As Grandma would say, “Game on, (expletive removed)!”








